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Give Me Three Days

Give me one day for me to cry my heart out. A day for me to absorb all the pain your words or actions have caused. A whole day for me to frown and sulk in disappointment. For I am hurting. I am down and aching.

Give me another day for me to process everything that has happened. Another day for me to understand where you are coming from. An entire day for me to comprehend why you were like that and why I am feeling this way. For I am reflecting. I am calm and thinking.

Give me one last day for me to express what I feel. A third day for me to speak up and respond with composure. A full day for us to exchange our insights and thoughts. For I want to hear you out. For you are important. Your clarification is significant.

Give me three days.

Just three days.

It’s always three days.

Then I will be okay. We will be okay.

 

*I appreciate how you handled this conflict, how you handled me. Thank you.

** This is a late post.

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66 thoughts on “Give Me Three Days

    1. Hmmm.. Three days may or may not be enough depending on the gravity of what he has done and how hurt you’ve been. It matters if intentional or not. If it’s a deliberate act or he’s just being insensitive or clueless.

      Were you able to talk about it na ba?

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    2. Ohhh…

      May suggestion ako, if ever hindi niyo pa nagagawa. I highly suggest to talk about the main issue ng personal, yung kalmado kayong dalawa. Just be honest and open, pinpoint the main reason why you were hurt and listen to his response.

      It’s not for reconciliation or whatever. It’s for you to be able to forgive him totally. Tapos ma-free up din yung bigat ng baggage na dinadala niyo pareho.

      I’m assuming na matindi ang mga nangyari.

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    3. Mabigat po ate. napag usapan na namin un ng kalmado kami pareho. nung naghiwalay kami hndi na ako nangako pa ng maaayos pa kami kasi sa ngayon, kahit hanggang ngayon, hindi ko pa gustong bumalik. may ganon pala no? akala mo perf na lahat. anim na taon na pinuno ng pagmamahal at pangarap, mawawala din pala.

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    4. Maybe because enough na ang 3 days para mag-emote sa nangyari. Again, it depends on the gravity and how the other person handles the conflict. ‘Wag ka mainggit kasi malamang ang petty ng istoryang ito kumpara sa kwento mo.

      And also, hindi gf-bf levels.

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    1. Based on my observation, for me it’s always three days.

      Two days of total silence, wherein I just cry on the first tapos pinipilit nang maging kalmado pero still crying on the second day. Tapos third day ako nag-i-speak up. With lots of review sa mga words ko, ’cause I don’t want to make people feel bad ganyan.

      Not enough for you?

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    2. di ko lang sure, di ko pa kasi na try eh tho I think on my part laya naman siguro or maybe it will take me time kasi I don’t want that person to feel bad too

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    3. Sabagay. It depends talaga sa level ng pain saka sa ginawa/nagawa niya sayo. Also, gaya ng sinasabi ko kay Rheasilient, depende din sa sincerity at effort ng other party.

      So, kumusta ang puso mo ngayon?

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    4. basag parin haha 2months palang kahapon eh pero hindi na ganun kabigat di tulad nung nakaraang dalawang month ngayon eh i’m okay but still broken pero umiiwas parin ako sa mga bagay na tungkol sa kanya at dinadaan ko nalang sa pagsusulat ang lahat

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    5. Ay two months pa lang… basag pa nga ‘yan. Haaaay.

      Hamo, ‘pag lumaon tatawanan mo na lang ‘yan. Ang importante ay yung mga learning. Mahabang process pa ‘yan. Pero kaya mong ma-overcome, sigurado ako dun.

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    6. haha yung sinulat ko na how to break a girl’s heart lahat ng yun eh ginawa niya hehe
      sana nga mag heal na ako, ang hirap kasi nung feleing na may nag hohold back sayo o yung may kaunting hope na baka maayos pa

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    7. Hahahaha korek! Ano yun? Nagka-amnesia ba siya? Nanuno ba siya? Nagayuma ng iba? Ba’t may biglang 180 degrees turn sa pagkatao niya? Baliw siya. Tuhurin ko siya sa tooooot niya. Wahahahahaha. Ako yung galit na galit eh.

      ‘Wag mong pagpilitan ang sarili mo. LOL. Ako talaga yung nagdedesisyon para sayo.

      Basta kung sa’n ka masaya, susuportahan pa din kita. πŸ™‚

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    8. hindi ko din alam anong nangyari eh, bigla nalang ganun, bigla nalang nawala, bigla nalang bumitaw.
      galit na galit ka ah hahaha kayo nalang magalit para sakin ako kasi di ko kaya magalit sa kanya, wala man siya narinig na kahit na ano mula sakin kundi pag iyak ko lang haha

      i’m decided na pag bumalik yeah tatanggapin ko tanga ko eh pero pag hindi edi hindi, hindi ako maghahabol

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    9. parang na pressure ata? or idk. magulo ata isip niya nun eh biglang nag mature pero ewan ko eh kung ano ba talaga ang totoo.
      haha as of now umaasa pako na magkakabalikan kami pero pag ako natauhan at wala na siya babalikan haha

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    10. Hahaha. OMG baka naman pinigilan ng pamilya! Tipong itatakwil at hindi bibigyan ng mana ganyan. Wahahaha. Or baka kasi nasa peligro ang buhay niya, like isa siyang spy! Tapos ayaw ka niyang madamay ganyan. LOL. Kdrama feels.

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    11. hahaha sana nga ganyn lang eh, kaso ang pamilya niya mahal na mahal ako silang lahat, yung mama niya nga umiyak pa sa harap ko at pinakiusapan ako na sana anidyan lang ako para sa anak niya at wag daw muna ako mag boyfriend hintayin ko daw anak niya.

      nalunod kana ata ng kdrama? hahaha
      hindi ko alam eh, hindi ko alam kung enough ba yung reason niya but still nirespeto ko parin

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    12. kaya nga eh hehe hayaan ko na muna, kailangan ko lang siguro na ilabas toh, and I think nakakatulong kahit papano ang pagsusulat ko and minsan nag wowonder ako kung nababasa niya ba itong blog ko kasi hindi healthy para sa kanya kung mabasa niya, masyado masakit mga words ko haha

      buti kappa nakaya mo haha kwento mo din ang iyo hehe

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    1. Own rule ko, based sa cycle ng pag-eemote ko. Hahaha. Maaaring hindi applicable sa iba. πŸ™‚

      Ang totoo hindi ko na dapat ito ipa-publish pa. I felt kasi na walang kwenta. Madaliang pagsusulat, parang nag-release lang ganyan.

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    1. Jusko. Gaano mo pa katagal ‘yan gustong i-embrace? Mahalin mo naman ang sarili mo. Anubaaaaaa (Imagine me, hawak ko dalawang balikat mo, niyuyugyog kita. LOL)

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